LiFetiMe DeciSions
Life is the mix of sadness and happiness for a life full of either would not be as pleasant as one of both. Why is sadness important in our lives? well that is simple, only after hardships do we understand the value of our lives and all the good things we have. A lot are afraid of failing, but even more don't take opportunities because of it; the word "FAILURE" is part of their dictionary and has a big influence in their lives. But if you really go back to all your success in life, you would find that atleast half of it came after "failing" or in my case it is simply after going through some experience and learnt. Because "Failing" is not and should not be feared but rather seen as an experience to learn from.
So after being friends with failure, comes situations were many hesitate to take, including myself. There are those simple situations where we tend to easily make decisions, but there are others of a life time choice that would need more thinking. These are situations of fear of the "Unknown" that is not a bit clear to any. The only thing that one can do is simply study what he has and choose between the alternatives.
Here also arouses another problem.. "What if we don't have any alternatives?" or simply, "alternatives come one at a time?" then there is only two things that can be done:
Risk it and take the very first one, or if you ain't comfortable with the first then wait for the second (if it ever comes next. So in both cases you are taking a risk. A risk that it might not work out very well in the first one, and a risk that you may not get a Second one.)
So how do you go about this situation?
Well maybe a personal view would help you ...
For me, as many others, I prefer choices cause it ease my decision making. But if no choices exist at the same time, then unless I'm very interested in the first given offer, then I would wait for the second. I would prefer to take the risk of not finding anything than just taking the first that I may not be comfortable with.
U know, feelings or what is said to be "INSTINCTS" do play a major role in decisions. So always listen to it and believe in it.
Life is full of hard choices, that at many times we don't take the right ones, cause we not always know which are. But we "LEARN" and that is important.
Know what you want and weight the choices... and SMILE

