Human's nature is that we ignore our flaws and don't notice them, and thus we are flawLESS. But have you ever had a situation in which you saw your own life through others?! Funny huh? asking yourself how can that be??? well here is my story..
As a human being, we are at times arrogant and can't simply accept our mistakes. We think we are the BEST and just ignore all our flaws that other see so easily. This is not to say that we do it on purpose, but rather, at times are blind and don't even notice why some ppl get so mad on us and are irritated by our actions:P I am saying this knowing that who knows me, will understand that the term arrogant doesn't really fit me:P ok ok i'm being arrogant now hehehhehe .. just kidding..
But reality is, there are two types of people, one whom when are aware of their mistakes, just move along and don't even care; the other type of ppl tend to understand those mistakes, and give themselves the time to make changes N better themselves. Those are the type of people who move forward rather than moving with no directions and thus never heading up the stairs.
My story is not a shock to me, as i have encountered many ppl in whom i see my own life through, but what really shocks is when i'm not aware of such habit I have had and the consequences it has on my life. I will elaborate more. I am living currently with a roommate, whom is decent n nice, but seems to bore herself for no reason, and maybe without even noticing. Every weekend, when she is spending it in the apartment, she wakes up at 10 watches "ALIAS" until she fall asleep sometimes at 2 then wakes up and watches "ALIAS" again until she goes to bed. FOR TWO WHOLE DAYS. She might go out for a movie late at night but this is a more precise plan for the weekend. So ...
Today as I saw this goes for the 8 or 10th week now, I sat down and thought of my own self back in Dubai. Just to let you know, I am a very active person who's dead meat if my daily schedule is not FULL. So the only reason I act so boring n sleepy is, MY SCHEDULE IS EMPTY.. nothing to do n thus I bore myself to death and sleep just like my roommate does. Which then makes me depressed because I didn't use the time wisely and thus the days ends ... with me being BORED!!
The reason am narrating my own story is to say that we make our own choices whether to be bored or not. It all depends on what we plan, or even in the worse scenario what we chose to do. Sleeping surely isn't the solution for a free day, alot many choices can pop up such as reading, dancing, surfing thenet, etc,, but the choice that I have made which is the easiest to perform was to SLEEP!!
We aren't given many years to live, or even many mintues.. we simply don't know when our lives would come to an end, because only God knows better. That is why, it is righteous to use our times wisely and remember, that even if we died, people would remember us only if we have had an influence in their lives. In other words, add up to others lives in the simplest forms, through helping, advicing, supporting, living, caring, etc. These simple actions can guarantee you a memorial life after death. Don't just waste your time doing nothing, have an impact, cause each can...