a Question with no Answer

Why do we at times lose hope in life

why do we lose the hyper personality, in a dull environment

why do we, with all our try outs, lose the simplicity of enjoying life

why, even with being here for so long, do I lack interest

why, with all the positive thinking, I feel I am drowning

why, with all those close ppl around me, my heart never stop aching

What is it that I have to do to regain myself

do i need more friends around me

do i need to be home with family

would any of this temporarily solution work

or is it a desire that has been lost and thus a life with it?

a Relation with God

I've always had problems relating to God because I had this one question buzzing in my head, "how can I relate to God when I can't see, feel, listen, talk to Him."

Not all that has been said is true, because I made those assumption of not being able to relate to God and thus build a fond relation with Him. And sometimes with assumptions made, one limits any possibilities because the mind has already set its limits. Also a relation is not always built on physical interaction, but more spiritual. let's first define a relation and how is it build:

A relation, the connection or similarity between two things (cambridge dictionary). Thus the definition doesn't specify the type of connection because there exists many. As how to build a relation, a human relation provides an easy step by step guide to it.

In its simplest forms, a relation is first built through meeting someone whether hearing about him/her or simply face to face meeting. With several short talks, you build a tendecy of liking the person, but only when you meet more often and spend time more getting to know each other, does one build a tendency of closeness.

So now back to building a relation with God.

God surely exists, listens, but He doesn't talk directly to us but rather through the Quran, prophets and simply through guiding us. We know He listens to us and we feel His closeness always, because He is the only to always be there for us at all times.
To build a relation with God, one should simply get to k now Him, like we get to know those famous people that we never met, but fall for their personality and charm. We need to give ourselves time to establish a close relation with Him through worshipping because that is the way of communicating with God.

The more we spend quality time, the more we are closer... a reality of life..